Why is secure attachment so important?

Why is secure attachment so important? How come so many people these days speak about it? Does it mean to carry my baby, breast feed on demand and have her sleep in my bed? What is the fuss about? Let me explain... We now know that not only the first 3 years in life but … Continue reading Why is secure attachment so important?

Relating starts earlier than we thought

Most of us have heard it or have recognized it in themselves: relating starts within me, starts with the relationship I have with myself. So what influences the relationship I have with myself? How does that come into existence? What plays into that?